Thursday, April 6, 2017

Hollis is TWO months old!!!

On February 28th, Hollis turned two months old!  She had alot of big things happen this month.  She has continued to be a champion sleeper and is still sleeping through the night.  She is still sleeping beside our bed in her rock and play.  We put her down around 9:30-10 and she wakes up around 7:30 the next morning.  But let me tell you, the two hours before her bedtime are ROUGH.  She has a intense "witching hour" and is just plain mad.  She isn't hungry and doesn't have a dirty diaper, but she will scream her head off for two hours each night.  It is super stressful for everyone.  Her pediatrician said she will outgrow it (and hopefully soon).
Nap time
Ready for bed






She also celebrated her first holiday which was Valentine's day!  She made her daddy an arts and craft and got lots of extra love and snuggles on this day.  We also started venturing out to eat and doing other things.  After she passed her one month mark, her doctor told us we could start taking her out more.  She got to meet her cousin, Blair and got to attend the RV show (which she slept through the entire time--can't say I blame her!).
Oh boy!  It's Valentine's Day!
Treats from Daddy

Off to the RV show
Busted out her "Cadillac"
Meeting Blair
She is still eating like a champ and is never one to turn down a bottle.  I am still pumping what seems like non-stop and am hoping to make it until her two month shots before I transition her to formula.

Also this month, she found her smile.  She has the cutest little coos and smiles and it is so much fun watching her get excited.  However, she is camera shy.  It is SOOO hard to catch a smile on camera.  When you get your phone out to take her picture, she goes stone faced. HA!



And probably the most difficult part of this past month is that I had to return to work.  Hollis' school isn't open yet, so daddy, DeDe, and Lolli and Pop took turns watching her.  There were definitely some tears shed, and it is so hard to walk out of the door every morning knowing I am missing so much of her day.  Also, while DeDe was in town, Casey and I went on a date night.  It was a great night with just the two of us and delicious steak at Eddie V's.



At her 2 month appointment, Hollis weighed 10 pounds 15 ounces and was 22.25 inches long! Getting so big!!


Hollis is ONE month old!

I am so behind on writing these monthly updates and I am sure I will forget some things that I want to remember, which makes me mad at myself.  But ANYHOW, our sweet baby girl turned one month old on January 28th.  I always will say that the first month we were just in survival mode.  I called it a "win" each day if I was able to brush my teeth and take a shower.

I would say our biggest accomplishment this month is that Hollis JUST started sleeping through the night!  Yall, at 4 weeks, she is sleeping through the night.  Our pediatrician told us that once she got up over 8 pounds, we could let her sleep until she woke us up.  That first night, she slept 8 hours and I was every bit of freaked out and relieved.  But she has continued to be a champion sleeper!  Now napping, is a completely different story, but we will work on that another day.


Currently she eats like a champ.  She loves her milk, however, sometimes struggles with falling asleep while eating.  I am pumping and bottle feeding which has worked out well for everyone.  I know exactly how much milk she is getting and Casey can help with some feedings as well.  She is a tiny thing, so I had to go out and buy some newborn sized clothes.  Most of the clothes I had were 0-3 months and they swallow her.  But she is growing every day!
In one of my new outfits
She HATES her baths.  I mean, it is very rare for her to lay there and enjoy the bath.  She screams bloody murder, and is even more pissed off when you have to get her out and put lotion on her.
First bath
One of my favorite things about her is her crazy hair.  She has one patch of hair that sticks straight up.  We cannot get it to lay down, but it is so dang cute.  I know as it gets longer it will start to lay down, but right now, I love that spunky little hair.  We also have been battling baby acne this first month.  It will come and go, but I know it will go away for good in a few weeks.

Crazy hair, don't care
We had her first photo session and went to her newborn shoot when she was 11 days old.  She was a trooper!  She slept the entire shoot and the photographer was able to capture so many good shots.  It is going to be tough to figure out which ones to have printed.






We have had several visitors in the first month!  We are so blessed with such a great group of friends and family and Hollis will have an abundance of love in her life.  We are thankful for people swinging by because we have been instructed not to get her out in public during her first month since it is prime flu season.

Uncle Jack  and Jane Allen came to see her from Alabama

With DeDe and Paw

With her bestie, Macartney
With Caryn and Casslyn

Holding Pop's Hand
Lollie and Uncle Josh











She is starting to focus on more stuff and really seems to concentrate on certain objects,  She still doesn't have complete control of her eyes, so sometimes she goes cross eyed looking at things.  She is not a fan of tummy time at all!  She would much rather be on her back.  



At her one month checkup, she weighed 9 pounds 6 oz and was 21.5 inches long.  Our sweet girl is growing like a weed.  This first month has been the most exhausting and breathtaking month of my life.  We are completely and utterly head over heels in love!

































Friday, March 10, 2017

IT'S A GIRL!!!!

Our precious baby GIRL made her appearance on December 28th, 2016.  Hollis James Satterfield entered the world at 4:07pm weighing in a 7 pounds 6 oz and 19.5 inches long.  She is absolutely perfect and we are so incredibly in love!

Hollis's birth story
Towards the end of my pregnancy, I had been having some blood pressure problems.  My blood pressure would shoot up and stay there, but then would eventually come back down.  On December 22, I had gone into the doctor's office for a blood pressure check, and it was high.  I believe it was around 160/99.  They were concerned and told me that I needed to go ahead and go to the hospital for monitoring.  If my blood pressure did not come down, they were going to induce me that day.  I was a little freaked out, but we drove over to the hospital and got all hooked up to the monitors and the first time they took my blood pressure, it was normal.  They continued monitoring me for 2 hours and it continued to stay in the normal range so I was discharged but placed on bed rest.  They decided to induce me the following Tuesday, December 27th.
Getting monitored
That weekend was Christmas and Casey and I had a nice relaxing weekend at home, just the two of us.  We exchanged gifts, watched movies, and spent quality time together before our little bundle was set to arrive.
Taking Murphy and Ruby to look at Christmas Lights

On the day of induction, I went and got a manicure and pedicure, met Casey for lunch, and made sure that we had everything packed up and ready to go.  We were set to arrive at the hospital at 7 that evening.
Final Belly Pic

Last picture as a family of 2
All checked in and ready to get the party started
They were going to start my cytotec that night which would thin out my cervix and hopefully help me dilate.  After we got all checked in, they (attempted) to start my IV.  They were able to get it on the second try, but ended up having to put it in the crease of my arm which was a pain.  This was by far the worst part of the day.  I felt myself getting super woozy and thought I was going to pass out, but was able to hold it together.  They started my cytotec around 8:30 and came in every 4 hours to give me another dose.  They told us to try to get some sleep and for the most part pretty much left us alone.  I started to feel some minor cramping throughout the night and didn't get hardly any sleep.  Those hospital beds are SOOO uncomfortable.  Plus, the excitement and anticipation were too much to bare.

The next morning, my doctor came in to check me before she went to the clinic (she had been on call the night before).  I was dilated to a 2.5 so she decided to break my water to see if I would continue progressing.  This was around 8:15 that morning and Casey and I were both shocked.  We didn't expect her to want to go ahead and break my water.  About 5 minutes after she broke my water I felt my first MAJOR contraction.  And holy crap!  Those things are no joke.  I had said from the beginning that I wasn't going to try to be a warrior and was planning on getting my epidural as soon as they would let me because let's be honest, I am a whimp.  I don't handle pain well AT ALL.  But I thought for sure I would make it a little while in active labor before I asked for it.  My L&D nurse was amazing and she could tell I was uncomfortable, so she told me to just let her know when I wanted it.  I told her I felt silly asking for it when I was only 2.5cm dilated, and she said "Well the anesthesiologist is right next door if you want me to get you on the list."  I decided to go ahead and get in line for that magical drug.

The anesthesiologist came in about 45 minutes later and by that point I was doing everything I could to get through each contraction.  They were coming about every minute and a half and lasting about 30 seconds.  Casey was a saint during all of this and keeping me calm and reminding me to breathe through each one.  And I will say, when the doctor walked in the room I freaked out inside a little.  She looked like she was 12.  Seriously.  Like in middle school.  I thought to myself "oh, wonderful.  This teenager is going to be sticking a huge needle into my spine that could possibly paralyze me."  But at that point, I was in so much pain, I was fine with it.  Let's get the medicine flowing, lady!  After I signed the consent forms and she got all set up, I was really feeling some pain.  Case sat in front of me while she placed the epidural and was a great support system.  The epidural being placed was a cake walk.  I felt pressure in my back but it didn't hurt at all.  They gave me a button to press when I needed it or felt pain.  They also rechecked me at this point and I was dilated to a 4.  In the beginning, the epidural was only working in my left side, so they turned me on my right side to lay and then I could feel the medicine slowly making its way to that side of my body.  By about 10:15 I was completely comfortable and couldn't feel a thing.  I tried to take a nap since I hadn't gotten much sleep the night before, but didn't have alot of luck.  I let my parents and Casey's parents all come in and visit for a little while since we were all just sitting around and waiting.

Around 12:30,  they checked me again and I was dilated to a 5 so labor definitely had slowed down after I got the epidural.  They decided to start a low dose of pitocin to see if they could get things to speed up and make sure that labor didn't completely stall out.  After they started the pitocin, I was able to take about an hour and a half nap.  After I woke up from my nap, Case and I just watched some TV.  I believe around 2 they checked me again and I was at a 7.  The pitocin was working and that was such a relief.  Around 3, a team of nurses came rushing in my room and said the baby's heart rate was dropping.  They flipped me into a couple of different positions and put oxygen on me.  They found one position that made her heart rate come back up and decided to keep me in that position while they checked me.  My nurse told me I was dilated to 9.5cm!  OH EM GEE!  That was FAST!  They went ahead and called my doctor to come to the hospital because we would be starting to push soon.

When Dr. Schneider got to the hospital, she checked me again and I was at a 10.  And it was go time.  They told me to leave my oxygen on because they didn't want to take any chances with the heart rate dropping again.  The thing about this epidural, was I literally could not feel a thing.  She told me that most people that have an epidural that is that effective, have a hard time pushing because they cant feel what they are supposed to be doing.  She wanted me to do a "practice push" to see if we needed to turn the epidural off so I could regain a little more feeling.  I did NOT want to feel a thing, so I pushed with everything I had.  She said she was going to go ahead and suit up, and we were going to get this baby delivered.

I started pushing around 3:40.  In the middle of pushing, they noticed the baby was face up.  Dr Schneider said she was going to attempt to turn her during one of my contractions.  She was able to successfully turn her so that she would  be delivered face down.  I pushed for about 25 minutes and at 4:07p.m. our precious little angel made her appearance into the world.  I was adamant about wanting to do skin to skin as soon as the baby was born so Dr. Schneider immediately placed her on my chest.  But she forgot the most important part!  To tell us the sex of the baby!  Lacy, our L&D nurse, said to her "what is it?"  And she was like oh my gosh and picked her back up and announced "ITS A GIRL".  Yall..... I couldn't believe it.  I was CONVINCED we were having a boy.  Casey and I were both crying tears of joy.  I honestly cannot put into words that feeling.  Waiting 10 months to find out if we had a son or daughter was one of the hardest and most rewarding things I have ever done.  And I think it made me push harder because I was so excited.  It truly was love at first sight.  I have never in my life loved something so much.


While the doctor was finishing doing her stuff, we sat there and just cried and laughed and stared at our sweet baby girl.  She peed on me twice before they got a diaper on her so I have a feeling she is going to be such a little firecracker!  We had not decided on a girl name prior to the birth, so at that point we decided that we needed to decide on a name.  Hollis was one of the names on our list and we both thought that it suited her so well.  Her middle name (James) is my dad's name.
7 Pounds 6oz, 19.5 inches long

Daddy's first time to hold his baby girl
The Labor and Delivery wing was full, so they wanted to get me moved to postpartum pretty quickly. After doing skin to skin for about 45 minutes, I was then able to breastfeed and use the bathroom and then they were wheeling me down to my next room.  This was my only complaint about the hospital---this room was TINY!!!  I mean so so small.  It was hard for both of our families to fit in there.
Skin to skin while waiting on our families to come in
Soaking it all in


First pic as a family of 3
We had let our parents (who were anxiously waiting) know that the baby had arrived and that it was healthy but had not yet told them the gender or the name.  I wanted to be a part of the announcement, so we waited until we were in our postpartum room to tell them.  And it was such a special moment.  Casey and I were both crying but I loved seeing the looks on their faces when we let them know that they had a granddaughter!



Meeting Paw
Meeting Pop
Meeting Lolly
Meeting DeDe
Proud Grandma's
Meeting Uncle Josh
First Dirty Diaper
We stayed in the hospital two nights and then were able to go home that Friday.  I will honestly say that I never knew I could love this much.  Hollis James, you have filled a void in my heart that I never knew was there.  I cannot wait to watch you grow up!
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